{"id":846,"date":"2014-07-31T09:00:52","date_gmt":"2014-07-31T14:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.wordpress.com\/?p=846"},"modified":"2020-11-04T15:47:16","modified_gmt":"2020-11-04T15:47:16","slug":"lyn-miller-lachmann-defined-by-others-rogue-giveaway","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/2014\/07\/31\/lyn-miller-lachmann-defined-by-others-rogue-giveaway\/","title":{"rendered":"Defined By Others"},"content":{"rendered":"

To wrap up our anniversary month, here’s an article about the importance of letting people speak for themselves \u2014 an important guideline here at Disability in Kidlit \u2014 written by author Lyn Miller-Lachmann. To make things even more exciting, we\u2019re giving away a signed hardcover of Lyn’s book Rogue<\/a><\/em>! Details at the end of the post.<\/p>\n

\n

People with disabilities often encounter situations where we are not allowed to speak for ourselves. For instance, restaurant servers may ask a companion what a person in a wheelchair, or with a visual or hearing impairment, would like to eat, rather than asking the person directly. This is just one example of what people with disabilities, people of color, and other marginalized peoples encounter on a regular basis. Due to their privilege, some people believe they have the right not only to speak for those of us on the margins, but also to depict and define us. And when privileged outsiders define us, they often do so out of ignorance, self-interest, or malice, and their versions of ourselves, rather than our own realities, become the norm.<\/p>\n

As someone diagnosed with Asperger syndrome, I have experienced this first-hand. Over the past decade, books and other media depictions of people on the autism spectrum have proliferated. While Temple Grandin and John Elder Robison, both diagnosed on the autism spectrum, have published acclaimed memoirs for adult readers, fiction for children and teens with protagonists and major secondary characters on the spectrum is predominantly the work of outsiders. (I would consider neurotypical parents of children on the spectrum to occupy an in-between position, but one with its own baggage.)<\/p>\n

I approach each new book written by outsiders with trepidation. These books tend to define us by our disabilities rather than showing us living our lives day-to-day. Because I wasn\u2019t diagnosed until adulthood \u2014 the Asperger\u2019s diagnosis didn\u2019t exist in my youth \u2014 I thought of myself as someone who had different interests from my peers and few friends as a result, but I was not a compilation of stereotypical traits. Nor was learning to accept my difference my core desire. (My desire as a teenager was to get into a prestigious college and leave the narrow, conservative community where I grew up.) Outsiders who haven\u2019t lived the life but who base their stories on book research are especially vulnerable to writing characters defined by their disabilities.<\/p>\n

\"Cover<\/a><\/center><\/div>Problematic portrayals of children and teens with autism written by outsiders (and baggage-laden parents) have won major awards and become the canon, often helped by their writers\u2019 superior publicity and marketing skills. As part of the canon, these books determine how teachers and librarians view their students on the spectrum and what those students may or may not be capable of accomplishing. These books affect the image young people on the spectrum have of themselves. Some portrayals that I have read have left me feeling humiliated \u2014 such as when a fictional child similar to me spends two days trying to cut down a huge oak tree with a coin because she takes something too literally. I know what classmates not on the spectrum would have said to me had they read that scene in class. (It would have involved the \u201cr-word.\u201d) In this way, exaggerated and stereotyped portrayals meant to combat bullying make the bullying worse. Always portraying children and teens with Asperger\u2019s taking everything literally (contrary to popular portrayals, we usually do figure out idioms pretty quickly) invites cruel pranks, which I have suffered as much in our supposedly enlightened and aware times as when I was growing up. Finally, when outsiders\u2019 inauthentic and insensitive depictions are lauded as authentic and sensitive, the stories I tell, even if based on my own life, are seen as inauthentic if they fail to conform to the canon. I watch helplessly as my experiences and feelings are denied, and my truth is no longer the truth. I have essentially been defined by others\u2014as have my characters on the spectrum.<\/p>\n

Do cultural outsiders have the \u201cright to write\u201d about us? Only if they are genuine allies, have done their homework, ask us to vet their work \u2014 and act to increase opportunities for us to tell our own stories. If you are writing a book that features a major character with Asperger\u2019s, I would appreciate your listening to me and telling your story with thoughtfulness and humility. I would also appreciate your support as I try to find my own place as a writer.<\/p>\n

\n

Lyn has generously donated a signed–and if desired, personalized–hardcover of Rogue<\/a><\/em> be given to one of our followers. To enter, simply leave a comment here on WordPress or reblog our Tumblr post<\/a>. (Yes, doing both increases your chances!) In one week, we\u2019ll select a single winner from one of these locations to win the book. This giveaway is limited to North American addresses.<\/del><\/p>\n

The winner has been selected, and the giveaway is over. Thanks for participating!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When privileged outsiders define us, they often do so out of ignorance, self-interest, or malice, and their versions of ourselves, rather than our own realities, become the norm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":1442,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_generate-full-width-content":"","kt_blocks_editor_width":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[116],"genre":[],"age_category":[],"disability":[7],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/846"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=846"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/846\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1442"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=846"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=846"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=846"},{"taxonomy":"genre","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/genre?post=846"},{"taxonomy":"age_category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/age_category?post=846"},{"taxonomy":"disability","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/disabilityinkidlit.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/disability?post=846"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}